Leaving Vermont

Crying softly in the
back seat,
waiting for endless greens
farms, cows
to stop.
It’s easier to grieve them
out of sight.


Doing for Me (What I can’t do for myself)

Memories have feelings.

A cold heat rising up from my toes and into my legs.

That unbearable restlessness.

It makes me want to do something.

Run. Around the block,


Escape myself.

But now it’s different.

I know there is nothing to fear

but the unpardonable sin

of thinking my way back to


In Cincinnati

By Don Munro

I don’t know anything

about Cincinnati,

just that it’s in the middle of


well, sort of,

at least more in the middle than

New York,

where I live.

But what I do know about Cincinnati

is that I wouldn’t want to

live there.

You see, I had

a dream.

And I was living there,

working in a TV station as a


and the whole time I was on the job,

I kept thinking about how

lonely I was,

and that I didn’t know anybody,

and that I missed my nephew,


Yet, at the same time,

a voice in the back of my head

kept urging me to go out and

make new friends,

find a new Al-Anon group,

do the work.

But I just couldn’t;

I was too depressed,

the kind of depression

that drags you down deep

and you stay there,

cause there’s no escape.

I’m glad it was

just a dream and


is not

where I live.

The Bedroom

By Don Munro

Donnie sat on the edge of a bed in a small room, the ceiling only inches from his head. He wore a hat, canvas, with a brim all around, the kind that fishermen wear.  The sun was streaming in the window, and he was staring right into it, blinded by its yellow light.

He was quiet. This was the first time in 80 years he’d been back in this room.

He turned from the window and glanced at the door, and in his mind’s eye, his mother, Christine, appeared—red hair in a bun and a white apron tied round her waist. She was coming in to wake him and Roddie, his older brother, for school, the smell of porridge rushing in along with her.

He saw Roddie’s face, too. Not the face he gazed on in a coffin in 1930 — when Roddie died in a fall from his construction site on the George Washington bridge.  This time, Donnie saw him as a boy lying beside him in bed—the lanky body of a teenager; freckles, tousled hair the color of sand; and green eyes thick with the crust of sleep.

Donnie thought about the day in 1923 when they’d left this room, this house,  saying goodbye at his fathers grave … to granny Munro out at the farm … the neighbors … to Alness.

He remembered, too, how excited he was to board the train, and then the ship to America. At the time, it all seemed like a wonderful adventure. As a boy, he imagined America a land of cowboys and Indians and movies. Money, like giant flakes of dirty snow, floated down from the skyscrapers to the streets below.

But leaving made his mother’s heart ache. She lived another 25 years in America, but hardly a day went by when she didn’t talk about her “bonnie Scotland.”

And now, finally, he was back. His grandson, the one the family called “wee Donnie,” stood beside him in the room. The air was still and warm–a relief from the chilly wind that blew down from the mountains and through the street outside.

Donnie picked up his cane and rose from the bed. He went to the window, looked up into the Highland sky and whispered:  “I’m home, Ma.”


By Don Munro

“Jesus Christ,” he said,

under his breath

but loud enough for me to hear.

I throw the ball back,

even more oddly.

It swirls far from him,

so that he has to run way left to catch it.


No amount of encouragement

can make me feel good about myself,

can make me throw

and catch

and run

and hit

like the other kids.

But this rejection,

using my Lord’s name,

the one we beg

to help us

be kind to others,

is too much.

I put the ball down,

and I won’t pick it up



Instead, I pick up

the pen.

Wish I Could be Still

By Don Munro

Wish I could be still
legs, heart shake behind a podium,
voice jumps,
no control.
Pure fear,
its taste on my teeth,
despite my efforts to breathe deep,
laugh off this audience of writers
as just people, too.
Wish I could be still,
as I stand before them,
expose my words, my very core
and wait for them to clap
or be silent
or laugh
at my creations — at me.
Wish I could be still
the next time,
because even as I walk back to my seat
after the critique,
all glowing,
all applause,
I fear that I will shake again
from fear.

A Runner Dies

Everybody at the funeral parlor couldn’t believe Joe was dead. He was just 55 years old.

“For God’s sake,” said Susan, his wife, “he was the picture of health.” The circle of friends who surrounded her and had come to pay their respects nodded in agreement. They knew Joe from the gym and that he ran every day, took part in triathlons, lifted weights. “Hell,” Jerry said, “he even trained people. Look, they’re sitting over there in a group; they look devastated.”

This week Joe was running in Echo Park and his heart quit on him. The police told Susan that he probably died instantly. It was at daybreak, they suspected. He died instantly. And Susan couldn’t erase the image of him dropping like a paper weight to the stone path that ringed the park.

Some elderly women, residents of the nearby assisted living facility, dressed in matching pink track suits and white walking shoes, found him at about 10 a.m. At first, they thought the man they’d found was unconscious, perhaps he was a drunk and had fallen asleep in the park. After all, it was common in that section of town. But when they couldn’t rouse him, and they saw the color of his face, an ash-blue, they knew that he was dead.

The Catholic priest at the funeral home stood in front of Joe’s friends and relatives and spoke about heaven and angels and life beyond what ordinary people knew. In that place, there were families and friends together, he said. Everyone was shining, basking in the glory of Christ. Joe was there, and he was happy, he assured Susan.

But Susan somehow didn’t feel comforted by that. She missed Joe. Already, she worried about how she’d live a life alone after 30 years of constant companionship with Joe. She wanted to go up to the priest, now saying the “Lord’s Prayer,” and stop him and ask him to just sit with everybody and be quiet. But she didn’t know how she could do it politely. She wanted to rail against Joe’s death, his absence from her life — not picture him on a cloud with angels.

She knew that there’d soon come a time when she’d miss him in their bed. What would she do when she wanted to feel his body against hers? Who and what would help her through that?

A strange man approached her from behind and tapped her on her shoulder. She turned and saw that he was small and balding and was wearing thick, black eyeglasses — the kind Buddy Holly used to wear. He smiled and handed her a condolence card.

And there, while the priest spoke, promising everlasting life with Christ, Susan opened the card and read the following words: “Why should you be surprised by death? It happens everyday, and it’s been happening since the dawn of time. Death is a natural part of life. You are nothing special that you should be visited with death. But you are special because you feel so deeply. Embrace these feelings and your memories. Embrace your loss, too. Feel it all and accept it … and the pain will mix with the joy of your memories. And you will someday be at peace.”

At first, when Susan read these words, she bristled at the idea of a stranger telling her that Joe’s death was no big deal. But as she read the letter one, two, three more times, she began to understand something, feel something. It was unlike anything she’d felt before; this was a kind of knowing that she felt inside — and that was that she knew she’d be alright.

“Embrace your loss, too. Embrace all and accept it …” As Susan read these words again, she began to think that maybe thinking about Joe being gone and thinking about how lonely she felt … well, that wasn’t such a bad thing. Suddenly, it made sense to her that her grief would run its course.

There, in the room with Joe, the mums and daisies, with her friend’s and family milling about and speaking in hushed tones, Susan stared at the cross hanging over the coffin and felt the beginnings of peace.